08/05/2007 Omega 4Comment

他對你壞,你故意忽視        Every time she does something that tells u she’s not good,u ingore it.
他對你好,你就完全的死心塌地    Every time she comes through and surprises u, she wins u over
完全沒想到其實是他不適合你     and u lose the argument with urself that she’s not for u!

他根本沒有沒有我想像中那麼的愛我  It turned that he wasnt in love with me like I thought
我可以了解這種渺小又微不足道的感受 I understand feelings as small and as insignificant as humanly possible,
就算遍體鱗傷也要故作堅強      and how it can actually ache in places that u didnt know u had inside u,
不管換了幾個新髮型         and it doesnt matter how many new haircuts u get
或跑去健身房或和姊妹淘喝白酒    or gyms u join or how many glasses of chardonnay u drink with u r girlfriends,
日日夜夜都仍在回想著每個細節    u still go to bed every night going over every detail,
納悶自己到底哪裡錯了   哪裡誤解了  and wonder what u did wrong or how u could have misunderstood.
最後自問              And how in the hell,
怎麼會把短暫的歡愉錯當成永久的快樂 for that brief moment,u could think that u were that happy?
有時候我會說服自己他會想清楚回來的 And sometimes u can even convince urself  that he’ll see the light and show up at u r door.
經過這一切之後      人還是會重新開始 And after all that,however long all that may be,u’ll go somewhere new,
再遇到值得付出的人         and u’ll meet people who makes u feel worthwhile again,
然後一點一點的重拾自信       and little pieces of ur soul will finally come back.
而那些模糊的回憶          And all the fuzzy stuff, 
那麼多年浪費掉的人生終究會開始消逝 those years of ur life that u wasted that will eventually begin to fade.

→The Holiday裡Alice的感情剖白(我都快掉淚了啦)

這幾天連續看了The Holiday(戀愛沒有假期)與The Family Stone(婆家就是妳家),都讓我從不同的角度衝擊出另一些衝擊。
戀愛真的沒有假期,你不去碰戀愛,戀愛可能自己來敲門。
到了哪裡一樣的問題還是存在,出走只是把問題擱著於事無補。
我好希望我能擁有The Holiday另一位女主角Amada1/3的理性(太多會太冷血啦)!
我自覺我是Amada那樣難搞的女生,但也夠特別,所以只有超具慧眼有深度的男人才能夠欣賞與擁有我。

「她是我的菜。」「他不是我的菜。」如果我超愛吃麻辣火鍋,但每吃必狂拉,還硬要嚥下去嘛?如果四神湯既補身又營養,雖然我沒那麼愛吃,但有益而無害要不要算是我的菜呢!?
所以我有很深的無奈︰是不是人總要繼續的跳到下一段愛情,一直的比較、爭執,才會回頭恍悟自己當初根本就愛錯人?也才會終於找到自己的Mr.Person?
The Holiday兩位女主角隔著半個地球找到真愛,Alice的哥哥竟變成Amada的男友,Amada前男友的同事變成Alice的男友;
The Family Stone更扯,本來要結婚的Meredith與Everett最後竟然互相跟對方的妹妹與弟弟換成兩對!當然照劇情看來~拘謹的Meredith配上不羈的Brad很互補,大方開朗的Julie跟紳士完美的Everet其實比較速配。
不過電影終究是電影,換到現實生活中誰能夠真的和樂融融?我就不信Meredith與Everett彼此見到都沒有些許尷尬與過往的情愫!?可是偏偏類似這種關係複雜的情事很殘酷的就存在著妳我身邊~我認為我寧願單純一點,兩人交往必然有交集的圈圈,有一些正面的關係實屬正常,但我的男人最好不要跟我的朋友有過奇奇怪怪的瓜葛!
圓滿的大結局需要後續的經營才能維繫,在異地所激發出的激情都是情緒當下的”真愛”,如果回國之後情緒變調了,那真愛不就變成”真礙”了~!?

恩…………結論是我不要作個太好的女生!!哈

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4 thoughts on “The Holiday&The Family Stone

  1. 可是我也覺得你有像Cameron Diaz 耶!在外在給人的感覺啦~~~她太理性了
    其實每個女人心中都是Kate 一一"
    不過你那個"阿"是~~~~~~sleep with???噗!

  2. 麥兄說我很像,不過我想我比較像Kate啦,但是我寧願跟Jude Law啊…

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